Hoa Pham

Sunday, May 07, 2006

disclosure

Well as promised, here is the confessional part of my blog.
I am an incest survivor as well as having survived schizoaffective disorder.
There are a couple of other labels that I have outgrown as well including post traumatic stress disorder.
I am not out at work nor is this part of my public profile as an author. Unlike Maria Hyland I have yet to tell this part of my life in the public sphere. But I have submitted an article that may change that. There is so much silence around these topics that someone has to break the taboo and be public about it so the shame is much less.
Stigma as one of my work surveys has said is rife.
My partner has cautioned me against even whispering this aloud in the blog world. But someone has to say I have survived this so other people know that you can. And thrive not just survive.

5 Comments:

  • This is a very brave confession you make, Hoa.

    "well done" doesn't quite capture it - but I hope you understand.

    ~ Oanh

    By Blogger Oanh, at 8:48 PM  

  • Thank you to both Oanh and Tarn- makes it all seem worthwhile!

    Hoa

    By Blogger Hoa, at 4:34 PM  

  • Hi Tarn and Tien

    Thanks for your kind words. Tarn I enjoyed reading about your work in Diana Khuu's paper it would be great to meet up some time!

    Tien see you at the next meet up

    Cheers Hoa

    By Blogger Hoa, at 4:46 PM  

  • Hoa

    I'd like to echo others' comments. Well done on having the courage to share this.

    Here's to thriving and not just surviving...


    Tom

    By Blogger Tom, at 6:23 AM  

  • Every time some one such as you makes it public that you have survived and will someday thrive, after what you have been through, it gives the Universe another reason to smile. All who are surviving and thriving are to be applauded for their bravery in continuing on.

    If you are looking for written support and links to other survivors please visit my wifes site at http://www.keeperskorner.com

    Peace and blessings

    John W

    By Blogger imo, at 6:05 PM  

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